Millions of Spaniards experienced, a few days ago, the painful return to work, which, in the case of young families, parents must juggle with their children’s last days of vacation.
Yesterday, Monday, the 2024-2025 school year began in most schools in Spain. This first week mixes conflicting emotions, especially when children take their first steps in kindergarten.
Fully aware of this, the teaching team at GSD Education proposes to families some tips to follow so that the separation of parents and children in the early days of school in the lives of the little ones is as least traumatic as possible.
Teachers know very well how challenging this moment can be, and that is why they can help families a lot. In reality, with a little love, patience, and following some simple advice, parents can help their sons and daughters overcome this stage in the gentlest and least distressing way for everyone.
The first ingredient of this recipe is understanding. Going to school for the first time is a big change in children’s lives. It is natural for them to feel insecure and for this to be reflected in their behavior, as well as in how they eat or sleep. Therefore, it is advisable for parents to embrace their emotions and give them the time they need.
The second is dialogue. Children need to be explained the situation with affection, talk to them about what is happening, assure them that, although they will be at school for a while, parents will come back to pick them up. It is important to maintain a positive conversation about school, turning it into a place of discoveries and new adventures.
And, in that dialogue, sincerity is paramount. Lies should be avoided. Telling children that you will be back soon or leaving in a lapse of the child’s attention, when they are not looking, will only increase their distress. Trust is key in this new stage.
It is also important to maintain a positive and confident attitude. Children perceive parents’ emotions instantly. If security and calmness are shown, they will feel the same. Therefore, it is best to leave behind doubts and guilt, and face the moment of starting school with a big smile.
The moment of separation should be brief, but sweet. Farewells should not be prolonged, nor should emotional blackmail be used. A kiss full of love and a confident smile are the best way to say “see you soon.” It is essential that they understand that the parents’ departure is part of the routine and that, even if it is difficult for them, it will not change if they protest.
Changes should be gradual. During this period, it is important to avoid introducing more significant changes in their lives, such as potty training or changing rooms. It is better to wait for them to feel comfortable with this new stage before making more changes.
And last but not least, it is necessary to maintain constant communication with them. And above all, parents should not forget that they are accompanied on this journey. Any doubts or concerns should be shared with tutors and educators, who are there to support them.
Referrer: MiMub in Spanish
